Key to Forgiveness is Acceptance

They say if you want to forgive, then accept things that already happened.

In the short story “Sinigang” I’ve read that in this story there’s acceptance. When Liza’s father made mistake he can’t easily give her forgiveness to him. On the other hand, when she saw her father’s affair and they are both asking for her forgiveness, she can’t easily give it to them. The only thing she can do is to accept the things that already happened. Maybe she can’t give her full trust again to them but she can accept it because it’s already done, and she knows she can’t turn back time again.

For me, as a 21st Century Learner it motivates me. The moral lesson I get form the story is acceptance. It gives me an impact that I’ll forever keep in touch. Acceptance is the key to forgiveness. We all know that everything happens for a reason. Unexpected things happen in our lives unexpectedly. They’re already happened so the best thing to do is to accept it. We face different problems and the two options we have is we either learn from it or run from it. Not every problems we might face is we need to run from it, we should learn and accept it. Because it’s better to live in a new and better life than chain yourself in the past. Learn to accept things that already happened because we can’t do anything to turn back time where it’s supposed to happen. Don’t shut people out because you can’t forgive them, try to accept things and it’ll make its own way to bring you in the better version of yourself where you can give your forgiveness and trust again and when that time comes, it will bring you to a new chapter of your life. Remember that there’s always acceptance to forgiveness.

Forgiveness and Acceptance (Sinigang short story)

Forgive and Forget

In this world, nobody’s perfect. People make mistake and people forgive.

Like what I’ve read in the story of Sinigang where Liza’s father cheated to her mother. She’s always come up to remember what happened to her life in the past. When she met her father’s affair she can’t say that she can forgive them for making mistake. Even if she wants to forgive them she can’t because time will always heal the wounds it caused to you. Even though she can’t give her forgiveness, she accepted the things that already happened.

As a 21st Century Learner it gives me an impact. One of the moral values I get from the short story is about forgiveness and acceptance. We all know that nobody’s perfect in this world. We make mistakes and we forgive. Acceptance is the key to enlighten up your feelings towards the situation. No matter how hard it is for you, you’ll always need acceptance for you to heal and to start a new beginning. There are things in life that we don’t want to happen but we need to accept. Things happen unexpectedly and we can’t turn back time so instead of torturing yourself in the past you need to accept it and learn from it. Time will always heal your wounds. Forgiveness is given to the person who deserves second chance. Remember that trust has the power to make people believes in you but if you broke the trust that’s given to you, it is not that easy to forgive you easily. People forgive if they can, because forgiveness takes process to heal a person who’s in pain. Forgiveness and acceptance is the key to have a happy life and a new beginning.

Breakfast at my House

During the week we’re often walking out the door with a coffee in one hand and slice of toast in the other, but on weekends breakfast is never rushed. It’s a late affair, sometimes spilling over to lunch, with lots of reading and chatter in between courses of fruits, poached eggs, honey and toast. One of our favorite things we like to serve when friends are visiting are buckwheat blueberry pancakes.

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